Day 21 of 31 Days of Consistency & Children
Since doing the 31 days challenge I have really been thinking about how my children need a lot of direction.
They need to be given very strict boundaries and very clear directions in all their daily activities. When too many tasks are left for them to interpret things can go haywire very quickly!
My kids have a toy room and a bedroom and then I thought it would be nice if they had a spot in the living room for some of their toys but I have quickly changed my mind. It is funny how ideas change rapidly when a person is thinking about the issues that can arise from such ideas.
My living room turns into a disaster.
The toy room has been hit by a massive tornado.
Their rooms were demolished by a tidal wave in a matter of minutes!!
Too many areas for them to “play” turns into more work for mom. I have changed my mind!!!
I completely revamped my living room. NO more toys! NO more books! Not in my living room!
I have decided to get their toy room under control as well. That room will be the only room for their toys and books. They can have books in their rooms and maybe a few toys but the majority of the stuff will stay in the toy room. My kids spend most of their time in the toy room anyway so why not keep that the designated room for toys!!
So the consistent part of this is that each and every night they will have to pick up the toy room and any other things that they have gotten out and put it back in its place. I am sooooooo tired of picking up then turning around to pick up again. This momma is not going to keep stressing about picking up because I am not going to pick up their stuff anymore. My kids range from 3 to 15 which is more than old enough to be responsible for their own items. If they are left out of place I will take it and they may not get it back. I don’t want to sound mean but I have plenty of other tasks to do each day.
What do you all think? Please tell me you have similar problems. What have you done to create less stress for yourself? Comment with your thoughts, ideas or suggestions!!
God Bless, Crystal