Day 26 of 31 days of Consistency & Children
How do you handle peer pressure with your children?
All children face it at some point in their young lives. No parent wants to see their children hurting or struggling with decisions to do the right thing or to follow their friends. How do we teach our kids not to “Fit In?”
This can be challenging because we want our kids to be liked and to have friends and not to be picked on but we don’t want them to sacrifice their values.
I don’t think God wanted us all to do the same thing. I am pretty sure God wants us to be our own individual which is why he created us all unique!!
My husband and I try to express to our children that they don’t have to do what everyone else is doing especially if they know it is wrong or if they feel led to do something else. We all feel judged by others at times and that is hard for kids to experience.
Lynn Cowell is a wonderful woman that will help direct you to raising wise daughters!!! My two oldest children are girls so I like to use her resources. I have yet to find a great resource geared toward boys but I am still looking. If you have any suggestions please share them with me. I like to have go to Christian resources for ideas!!
How do you handle peer pressure in your house? What do you do to prevent your heart from hurting due to the mean things people can say or do when we don’t fit in?
Remember that God is the only one we have to please!!